Who are you


What you need to know is

The reason why some people don't give what you do is because they know you can handle it and you resist the urge to give up on a situation as you view what's happening as unintentional until it's uncomfortable

Now before you start to worry that you're co-dependent, out to rescue every lost soul, think again because once you discover that people tap into your skillset because of their own shortcomings you'll see that this leads them to sit back and think they don't have to put the effort in or that you're being uncomfortably love bombed to the point of exhaustion but don't let this deter you because you're not a typical people pleaser but someone who ultimately wants to make a difference.

So what can you do about it?

A good place to start is to understand that your personality plays a part in who and what you attract as others will use your traits to their advantage which puts you at a disadvantage so the benefits of understanding your behaviours will help you master the art of protecting yourself and your goals by developing workable boundaries for someone like you who approaches connections wholeheartedly and in turn it will give you the inclination to challenge situations that don't work for you so you can gain the space to tap into your creative or business acumen to achieve your goals.

Take a look at the questions in the link below to determine whether you're an over giver or not

https://www.flipsnack.com/findyourpower/are-you-an-over-giver-tn868in7t9/full-view.html

Still not convinced?

Well here's how it might help you

* You'll be able to put feelings of guilt aside when it comes to saying no to requests from others
* You'll be able to build up resilience so you can deal with feelings of loneliness in yourself and that of others
* You'll be aware of your strengths in terms of your potential and use your traits to benefit yourself
* You'll recognize that some sob stories are just that so you resist the urge to rescue

If the above sounds like something you'd like then let me help you step out of your comfortable place and make freedom happen

So how does it work

Think of this process as though you're putting yourself in the shoes of a character and as it's something that you do for yourself outside of confiding in close ones who may not always understand your heartache or have a biased opinion this will evoke feelings within you that aim to help you connect with the reasons why you're feeling the way you are through the safety that movies provide.

To get started fill in the form below with some details and once you've paid through the Pay pal link then I will email you a series of questions so that I can prescribe some pointers from an over givers experience through a movie and if you wish to discuss via a telephone or Zoom call then book yourself in for a free 30 minute session to ensure that you can make some headway to making better connection choices

 

If you'd like to continue your journey using movies then then we have two programmes that might interest you - Click here to find out more